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Renew Your Appreciation for Flowers

By the way, it is royal tradition to carry a sprig of myrtle in the wedding bouquet. The myrtle not only comes from special place – Queen Victoria’s garden, but is the emblem of love and marriage. Be sure to look for it in Meghan’s bouquet.
Not only do flowers convey meaning, but also have the ability to heal our emotions. In the 1930’s, Dr. Edward Bach, a medical doctor from England studied flowers and discovered that flowers in nature have the ability to affect our emotions positively. For example, white chestnut helps free us from unwanted thoughts and mental arguments. Wild rose helps free us from resignation and apathy. I guess nature really is our medicine cabinet.
Learning more about flowers has renewed my appreciation for their beauty as well as their significance in our lives. I’ll be sure to choose carefully when selecting flowers for friends, loved ones and for when I treat myself to a bouquet for the table.

Revitalize your culinary explorer and well-being with an herb garden

The bright green color and refreshing scents of each herb add a cheerful, clean feeling to the kitchen as well as the heart and mind.

There are dozens of herbs to choose from.  They can be used separately, but it’s fun to experiment and combine them in different recipes, too. I chose the following herbs not only for their contribution to daily cooking, but also for their support of my emotional well-being.

Thyme for courage and confidence

Marjoram for joy and happiness

Rosemary for remembrance

Basil for love and good wishes

Sage for wisdom and long life

Boy, nature surely seems to provide everything we need to live well and happy. Revitalizing body, mind and spirit with these gifts from nature…now that feels like a wise thing to do!

Renew your brain with deep, restful sleep

We don’t need a PhD to tell us that a good night of deep, restful sleep enables us to wake up feeling happy, alert and clear headed. This month, I’m polishing up my bed time routine to ensure more deep, restful sleep by adding a few new things:

  1. Diffusing lavender essential oil in my bedroom about 30 minutes before bed
  2. Taking a page from the practice of Ayurveda, gently rubbing sesame oil (I use refined sesame oil which has little fragrance.) into the bottoms of my feet just as I get into bed. I’ll be sure to wear socks to keep the oil off of the sheets.
  3. Clearing my mind of the worries and the ever-present “to-do” list by taking a few deep breaths and slowly repeating the mantra “The day is done. It is time to rest.”

With these simple steps, my brain should have just what it needs to wash itself clean of toxins, repair itself and prepare for a new day of work, play and of course…time with friends!

A Prayer for Friendship

On the world day of prayer, I will recite this prayer and remember once again that the true banquet in life takes place when we, of different ages, perspectives, life experiences, cultures, races and traditions come together.

It is then that our lives are truly enriched.


A Prayer For Friendship

By Chris Mabon


Thank you, God for the grace to be a friend to myself and others.

Thank you

for the strength to be a source of encouragement,

for the capacity to learn and share new concepts and the desire to stay engaged and knowledgeable in the ever- changing world,

for the fortitude to be a dependable anchor when the storms of life come,

for the wisdom to know what is true and the courage to share that truth,

and for a young, joyful heart that embraces with childlike wonder, the beauty, bounty and pleasure of life with friends.

As I reach out to give friendship, I also receive friendship

and my life is enriched.


Afternoon tea

Tea is the world’s most consumed beverage (not counting water). British culture is one that takes tea seriously. English novelist, essayist, journalist and critic, George Orwell even wrote an essay entitled “A nice cup of tea”, in which he outlined his own eleven rules for tea. Now, that sounds serious to me!

If you’ve ever wondered how to make a proper cup of tea (at least from the British perspective), enjoy this short video that shows we friends living across the pond how it’s done.



Renew your appreciation for the simple pleasures in life.

It’s known as the Nordic secret to happiness and its basic elements include spending time outdoors (yes, even in the Nordic winter!), remaining active, keeping food simple and nourishing, being kind to yourself, being sociable and spending time with loved ones.

Signe Johansen, author of How to Hygge: The Nordic Secrets to a Happy Life, writes “A life of hygge requires kindness: to ourselves in the everyday acts that bring contentedness and pleasure, and kindness to others in spirit of kinship and conviviality.”

I plan to incorporate more hygge into my life and this “month for love” feels like the perfect time to start. On the list: I’ll stop hiding from the cold, bundle up and get outdoors more often, open the scented bath salts I got for Christmas and soak in a hot tub, keep candles burning, mix up a pot of hot chocolate and invite a few friends over for a game night. Already, the grey February Pittsburgh skies seem brighter.

Learning about hygge has renewed my commitment to savor the simple pleasures in life. What do I hope to achieve? A deeper sense of contentment, coziness and a sense of well- being. Now that feels like love to me.